Should They or Shouldn’t They? Pros & Cons of a Benson-Stabler ‘Law & Order’ Romance Now
For 12 seasons, Law & Order: SVU fans watched partners Olivia Benson (Mariska Hargitay) and Elliot Stabler (Christopher Meloni) solve crimes together, with some hoping they’d cross that line and go there. It didn’t happen. Instead, he left, and it didn’t seem like a return was in the cards. That changed in 2021.
Meloni is now back in the world of Law & Order, in his own spinoff, Organized Crime, and the two-part crossover that introduced it also killed off Stabler’s wife, Kathy (Isabel Gillies). Rather than remove a complication, however, that just created more, with the focus of her death episode on Benson and Stabler seeing each other again (understandable, given how much time had passed and the lack of communication had to be addressed) and it’s probably best not to get into The Letter, no matter how you feel about a potential Benson-Stabler romance.
But ever since Meloni’s onscreen return, hints have been dropped on both shows that a relationship between the former partners (she’s now Captain of SVU, he’s now on the Organized Crime task force) is possible. Stabler, while drunk, admitted he’s in love with someone, while Benson, in Kelli Giddish’s final episode, shared with Rollins what’s been holding her back. Then, the former partners had a poignant gift exchange in the finale crossover — for him, an ornament reading (after he adjusted it by removing an “E” from the first word) “Liv Love Laugh,” and for her, a compass that should lead her to happiness.
And so when better to wonder if SVU and Organized Crime should go there now than with both shows slated to return in about a month? Below, we take a look at the pros and cons, plus we ask you to vote in a poll to share your opinion.
Law & Order: SVU, Season 25 Premiere, Thursday, January 18, 9/8c, NBC
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CON: Has the slow burn been too much of a slow burn?
Fans first saw Benson and Stabler together onscreen in 1999, so the slow burn has been going on for a looooonng time. But is there such a thing as a slow burn reaching a point where it can’t boil over, especially given the history — and there is a lot of that in this case — and the time apart? Benson even said, “I’m not over it,” to Rollins.
PRO: Who doesn't love a good friends-to-lovers romance?
It’s a trope for a reason: It’s entertaining! After all these years of waiting, it could be very satisfying to see all the hints and “Bensler” moments amount to something — and they do say friends make the best lovers.
CON: The Kathy of it
Poor Kathy. She was in the unfortunate position of being Stabler’s wife, the woman between the two, and it doesn’t help that she was an afterthought in her own death and then ended up being the one to write most of The Letter. And now Benson has admitted that she thinks it would’ve been easier if Kathy hadn’t died (and since it didn’t seem like the Stablers would ever divorce, that would’ve made this debate pointless). It seems like no matter what, Kathy is always going to be between them.
PRO: Crossover romances can be fun...
…if done right. (Just look at One Chicago, another Dick Wolf franchise, for how to handle everything crossover-wise.) Who doesn’t love seeing characters interact across shows? And with both set and filmed in New York, it wouldn’t be too hard to have one pop up in an episode of the other’s.
CON: How much would we see with both on different shows?
However, as much as we love crossover romances, after waiting all this time, would we really want to just relegate this relationship to a couple scenes every so often on one or both shows? Weekly crossovers likely aren’t plausible.
PRO: Both deserve happiness
Since 1999, we have watched both Benson and Stabler be put through a lot, both when they were partners and after he left. And given all of that (just look at what she went through with Pablo Schreiber‘s William Lewis and the fact that he lost his wife — though we’ll get to that shortly), if they feel they can find some joy with one another, why not give it to them?
CON: If it doesn't work out...
That’s exactly the concern Benson admitted to Rollins. After the detective suggested the captain find the same happiness she had, Benson said, “I did feel like Stabler was my home, but he left me, Amanda, and I’m not over it.” Furthermore, with Kathy gone, “it’s like there’s nothing but possibility, which is paralyzing,” she explained. If things don’t go well, she’d lose their friendship. And it doesn’t seem like these are two people who would remain friends after a romance went south; just look at what it took for them to get back on good terms after he left — and that was when they had just been partners!
PRO: They're running out of time
Let’s be realistic: It may seem like SVU can just keep going and going (considering it’s entering its 25th season), but chances are it will end sooner rather than later. And after all this time, the last thing Law & Order needs to do is put Benson and Stabler together only for fans to barely get to see it.
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Yes. It's overdue. Majority of the audience would like to see it. The will they/won't they that they are trying to prolong is overdone and lost all excitement. Time to actually do it.
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Yes I most definitely agree it's about time that the writers stop teasing us fans of possibilities of them getting together romantically and just get them together for pike sakes and stop sending in new romances for them both cough Tia, cough Rafa Barba Cough or whomever. Elliot and Olivia love each other unconditionally and they deserves each other. Sometimes bad is going to happen to Olivia Benson and it's time that the writers to send Elliot Stabler to be by her side and for him to show Olivia Benson how much he means to her and she can find that home with him again. Please send Rafa Barba or any other man Stabler loves Benson bottom line case close. Please writers let Elliot be there for Olivia Benson.
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I think they need to get together. Not sure when exactly but Olivia ending up with Elliot just makes sense. It would be her getting her happy ending. But once they put them together they need to keep them together
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I think this is one of those things like Josh and Donna on the west wing. You they love each other but you have a romance that could only have taken place in the final season. We love these characters and one them to be happy with each other and couldn’t bear the thought of them not being together. There’s a major difference between Stabler and Benson is each has their own show. So if they chose to have a romance and it won’t cells the friendship would be destroyed but it should still have their own series to move on it. If they were together And the romance fails in SVU that would be the end of the show. The other thing that I noticed that you had far more cons than you had pros. You basically has an answered your own question no they shouldn’t be together.
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It would be a “jump the shark” moment. Killing SVU for me.
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Never wanted it way back in the early seasons. (Still don't, though that's just me personally.) But the writers have revved up that engine now, it makes no sense to leave it idling at the start line after getting everyone amped up already.
Truth is, I'm indifferent now since I dropped off the show ages ago. But it is annoying when they dance on the fringes of these things for too long. (Granted, I do get it's to keep viewers tuned in to future episodes.) Either commit to it or don't. This one-foot-in thing to keep people in suspense gets old.
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Benson deserves more than an old friend with anger management issues and a hair trigger.
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You mean back in 80's just like the writers didn't want Hunter and MCCall romantically together.
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I think Benson deserves better!
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Yes and it's Stabler not Rafa Barba or any other man except Elliot Stabler
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I remember one Rafael Barba letting Olivia know his feelings for her and leaving that door open!. Frankly, I'd rather see her with Rafi, who has compassion, understanding, and as Stabler is too volatile, unpredictable, and ultimately, unreliable. Rafi was always there for Olivia and I believe she had feelings for him too.
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Thing is, Olivia doesn’t like barba like that. It’s been clear for years they feelings on her end aren’t there for him. She loves Elliot though
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I think it should stay a “forbidden” romance 🥰
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Isn't it enough with we have to deal with Tj and Amy (GMA) or Amy and TJ, let's keep it professional. They are a great team. Always enjoyed the show. Wouldn't mind a corrupted romantic relationship with another person. Didn't see that coming relationship and everyone's talking about it as if he or she knew...leave us on
wondering.
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I would love to see a Benson and Barba romance.
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Olivia definitely doesn’t like barba like that. Lol she wants Elliot
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That's right just like Elliot Stabler didn't want Tia in that way he loves Olivia Benson and the writers and the producers needs to put Olivia and Elliot together romantically instead of sending other people to romance them cough Rafa Barba Cough Tia or whomever. Make it happen between them no more teasing ud fans get them together romantically for pick sakes. Olivia is in trouble please send Elliot in that episode so that he can actually be there for Olivia Benson so that they can find that home again with each other and be by each other's side that would be a great episode and it would be about time for them both and I just wished that Amanda Rollins Carris was there to see it happened between those two and for her to say At Last it's about time.
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