‘Full House’ Alums Don’t Know Why the Show Barely Mentioned the Tanner Girls’ Dead Mother
Considering the death of Pam Tanner kicked off the plot of Full House, why did the ABC sitcom ignore her absence for most of its eight-season run? Fans don’t know why, and, as it turns out, cast members Andrea Barber (Kimmy Gibbler) and Jodie Sweetin (Stephanie Tanner) don’t either.
Barber and Sweetin discussed Pam’s short shrift during the February 20 “minisode” of their podcast, How Rude, Tanneritos!, as they reacted to Reddit users’ complaints about Full House. And one of the quibbles is that the show hardly mentioned Pam.
As fans know, Pam welcomed daughters D.J. (Candace Cameron Bure), Stephanie, and Michelle (Mary-Kate and Ashley Olsen) with husband Danny Tanner (Bob Saget) and died in an automobile accident before the events of Season 1. Following his wife’s death, Danny enlisted brother-in-law Jesse Katsopolis (John Stamos) and best friend Joey Gladstone (Dave Coulier) to help raise his kids.
Barber and Sweetin pointed out on the podcast that viewers get a brief glimpse of Pam in a VHS tape recording shown during a Season 1 scene, when the character is played by Christie Mossman, but that’s about it. And Pam deserved more of a posthumous presence, the actors argued.
“It doesn’t need to be morbid or down,” Sweetin said. “It would [be like] naturally, over time when you can tell stories about somebody that are funny. Like, I would have loved to have heard more stories about Pam with the kids or something she did with Danny … because that’s kind of what you do when someone passes. You keep them alive with the stories, and I feel like Pam just really got, um, sort of… It was like, um, you’re dead, bye. You know?”
Barber agreed, saying, “Yeah, It doesn’t have to be sappy with the violins and crying. Like, no, you could just have a casual mention in these later seasons.”
Plus, as the actors said, Pam was conspicuously absent from picture frames around the Tanner house. Stephanie even had a headshot of her dad by her bed but no photo of her mom.
“Pam was kind of erased by season 4,” Barber said.
“By Season 4? By Episode 4!” Sweetin quipped. “They were like, just wipe her name off. Yeah. Bye.”
In a recent Reddit thread on the topic, fans suggested ways Full House could have incorporated Pam into storylines. One fan proposed flashbacks and “maybe even seeing some of D.J. and Stephanie’s memories of their mother,” especially in the sitcom’s early years, “where they could’ve shot flashbacks with the girls [because] not that much time has passed.”
Another fan said Pam could have appeared in dream sequences “where she visits each of the girls for very different reasons that include major life changes, struggles, and achievements.”
“I’d also have her come to Danny in a dream to approve of Vicky so he would feel more reassured in dating her and proposing,” that fan wrote.
Coulda, woulda, shoulda, Full House writers!
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I don’t blame Michelle she was around 6 months old when her mother passed..Even though Pam never appeared on screen (she had passed away before the series started), Danny talks about her with love and warmth, reminding Michelle—and the audience—how important she was to the family. It’s one of those quiet, emotional moments..because, understandably, she’s never met her. Danny’s response is so full of love and memory “He talks about how kind, loving, and strong Pam was, making it clear she was the heart of the family.He mentions how she loved her daughters fiercely and how much she shaped them, even though they didn’t get to spend as much time with her.Danny emphasizes that her spirit lives on through the family—the girls, Jesse, and even the way he tries to be a good dad.He shares little anecdotes about her, showing her sense of humor, warmth, and how she always put the family first.Michelle gets to feel a connection to her mom for the first time, and it’s bittersweet because we, the audience, know she’s never coming back—but her memory clearly guides the Tanners’ love and choices! “ The show frequently references the past: the house, the family dynamics, the legacy of raising children together, and what “home” means — all of which Pam originally helped shape.In the finale, the decision of the family to stay together in the house (rather than go entirely separate ways) echoes the idea that Pam’s vision of family lives on: love, togetherness.
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I love full house and I still love the show when pam brings her baby girl home
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I have seen the entire series and while Pam may not have been mentioned on an episodic basis, she was mentioned at least once every season, such as when Stephanie mentioned her to her abused classmate or when DJ specifically mentioned to Kimmy that Pam was killed by a drunk driver.
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I saw the episode where the girs were remembering their mom and how she gave dj her Mr pillow and gave Stephanie Mr bear and then they all sat down and watched the video
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They definitely DO mention the mother alot through the episodes.... hmm.
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Full House did everything it could, as every fan is aware.
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Pam was mentioned a lot by Danny even in the last episode when Michelle asks about her mum
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