‘Married at First Sight’: 4 Key Moments From ‘This Is My Decision Day’ (RECAP)
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[Warning: The below contains MAJOR spoilers for Married at First Sight, Season 14, Episode 7, “This Is My Decision Day.”]
The honeymoon is officially over as the couples of Married at First Sight Season 14 return to reality in Boston for the latest episode,” This Is My Decision Day.”
From moving into new apartments to seeing each others’ places, the couples are diving deeper into what it means to be married, and what it means to question the relationship in this pivotal installment. Below, we’re breaking down all of the drama so beware of spoilers ahead.
Moving In
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After returning from their Puerto Rico getaway, most of the couples move into their new shared apartments, beginning with Lindsey and Mark. She takes charge as soon as they get in, beginning laundry and asking about their next steps in helping Mark get his things from the old apartment he’s being evicted from. Her eagerness is a bit much for Mark, but he makes the best of it and has fun with his wife chatting. Meanwhile, Olajuwon and Katina check out their new kitchen and discuss meal prep, something that he’s expecting her to get involved with.
Noi and Steve make their new bed up with sheets and she admits she’s nervous about living with a stranger now that vacationing together is over. As for Chris, he moves into the apartment for him and Alyssa alone as he cannot reach her, even by phone as she never shared her number with him. Michael asks Jasmina about sleeping, and she ends up leaving their apartment to sort out what she’ll do with her dog before settling into the new apartment.
Getting to Know Your Spouse
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The couples get to know each other by visiting each others’ apartments and homes to pick up items for moving in together. First up is Noi who welcomes Steve into her apartment and introduces her dog Sushi to him. When she brings up sleeping with the dog in their bed, Steve shows some hesitation as he’s not a big dog fan. Meanwhile, Lindsey does her best to help Mark get his items from a bedbug-infested apartment, but her approach is a little different than Mark would like as she tosses his clothing and other goods in black trash bags.
Olajuwon shows off his home gym and other spaces to Katina who is mostly impressed except for when it comes to his design sense, particularly with kitchen curtains. As for Lindsey’s apartment, Mark can’t help but notice her affinity for house plants, as they take up a lot of space. And Steve’s baren living space is jazzed up by strips of LED lights that don’t impress Noi much. As for Michael’s visit from Jasmina, things don’t go as planned when she reacts badly to his lack of being up front about the fact that he has a female roommate.
Nonstop Drama
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In a brief confessional video, Lindsey fills viewers in on Mark’s situation, noting that his life has blown up even more than just the apartment eviction. According to her, his grandmother’s health is declining, and the stress is taking its toll to the point where Mark is acting like a different person behind the scenes.
And then there’s Chris and Alyssa, both of which vent about their situation in separate meetups. Chris connects with a friend who listens to his story about Alyssa’s hangups and lack of interest. Meanwhile, she chats with her mom, complaining that Chris has a lack of respect for her. It seems that Alyssa’s main issue with Chris is a recent social media post he shared about defunding the police.
Pastor Cal Pays a Visit
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Now that the metaphorical dust is settling as the couples ease into day-to-day life, Pastor Cal is making house visits to better understand where everyone is at right now. Among the first couple up are Michael and Jasmina who discuss communication. Jasmina also brings up that Michael’s temper can turn into yelling, and so the expert offers some helpful advice to improve their connection following the honeymoon hiccup and recent roommate revelation.
When it comes to Olajuwon and Katina, Pastor Cal asks about their communication, and she admits it isn’t always great because he doesn’t always listen to what she’s saying. Pastor Cal suggests that Olajuwon be more considerate and advises the couple to go all-in on their marriage as they’ve yet to consummate the relationship.
Noi and Steve discuss their varying views on money, and through a tearful moment, Noi explains that income insecurity stems from her experience of growing up in a refugee camp, and so it’s important to her if they have kids that they make sure they’re financially stable. Can Steve find a full-time job to ease her concerns? Only time will tell. As for Mark and Lindsey, things are a little tense and the couple has a bit of a fight before Pastor Cal shows up. When the expert arrives at their door, Mark greets him and Lindsey is summoned from their balcony.
Mark admits that he doesn’t feel like Lindsey always listens to him and although he appreciates her helpful nature, he sometimes needs things to mellow out. They come to an agreement to listen more to each other and talk through things. Rounding out the night are Chris and Alyssa who meet with Pastor Cal at what should be their shared apartment.
When the expert questions where they’re at, Alyssa claims she’s ready to try, but it’s too little too late for Chris who pulls the plug on their relationship, announcing that today is his Decision Day. Alyssa cries, claiming she worked so hard to get here, but Chris isn’t convinced as he tells Cal he thinks Alyssa checked out during their wedding. With that doomed relationship now obliterated, it’s up to the four remaining couples to prove whether or not they’re a perfect match or not as Married at First Sight continues. Tune in next week to see how things proceed following this major reveal.
Married at First Sight, Season 14, Wednesdays, 8/7c, Lifetime
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I applaud Chris for the way he handled the situation. Easy for people to spiral when there so much conflict. Hope he finds his soul mate wish him the best. Glad he stood up and put end to the marriage.
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Alyssa is delusional! She just wants to be on tv with her new friends. Chris is such a good sport, putting up with her disrespect. When Alyssa sees herself on TV she’ll see how bad she treated Chris. Good luck Chris on finding someone for your everafter.
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Alyssa is the worst and she’s so toxic. Even when she’s crying she’s concerned about her makeup and how she looks for the camera. When she talks she absolutely says nothing. She lies and is emotionally empty inside. MAFS owes Chris another chance. Chris is a stand up guy who deserves a lot better.
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Totally agree 100%
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Agree Alyssa is gone !!!!!!!!!!!!! For good we hope.
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I agree, Chris deserves another chance.
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She was a mess. She was so selfish and unreasonable.
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I think Chris should get another chance to be matched with a good individual.
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You are absolutely right!! Alyssa is immature and childish in all her actions! She wants to be on TV BUT NOT WITH CHRIS!
This is a Journey about “Marriage”, not some single’s gossip time with other girls?! Do you see how she has disconnected from her role here with Chris, but still wants to be a player — but without him? Why is her thinking so skewed on this?
She’s a User and Chris’ Abuser — and I truly think she isn’t even aware of her horrible actions. She has huge issues!
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So happy Chris came to the realization he deserves better than what he got. Alyssa's free ride is over. And sad she has to keep reminding herself she is a nice person.
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I just watched the last episode. Most of the couples are going through growing pains with getting to know each other with cameras in front of them.
Chris and Alyssa are in a whole other orbit. I applaud Chris for showing grace and dignity with his decision.
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Alyssa Knew what she was getting into I think it’s all for publicity for her I feel bad for Chris
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Alyssa is someone that can fake a cry at anytime. I’m glad Chris is over it and decided to move on. She knows how to play up to the cameras but the producers were over her at the honeymoon. I think even pastor Cal was cheering inside when Chris said he wanted a divorce.
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Chris has more than given Alyssa time to make a choice about their marriage relationship. But anyone watching this show can see that Alyssa is “playing” everyone because she wants to be on this TV show — but she has no intention of developing any relationship with Chris.
From their Wedding Day, Alyssa was “off” and pushing Chris away. Chris was being positive while she was being negative — and the negativity hasn’t stopped! Why? Because the moment she gives in to Chris, her plan to have fun with this “experience” (that doesn’t include Chris) implodes! It’s always been about Alyssa’s feelings, NEVER about Chris!
Even her mother and family says she flies off the handle and cries to get her way! That’s exactly what she has been doing up to now — and it is getting O L D ! Come on Chris! You do NOT DESERVE THAT TREATMENT FROM ALYSSA! Cut her loose and go forward! There IS a loving caring woman out there waiting for you…find her and toss Alyssa to the barracudas!
If Alyssa says one more time “I’m a good person”, everyone we know is going to throw up! Apparently, she has no idea what a “good” person does!
CHRIS — get a divorce!
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Agree Glad Chris chose a divorce last night. No sympathy for Alyssa what a user!
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Unfortunately for Alyssa, the one thing she kept saying (“I’m a good person”) is a blatant lie, but not to her. I believe her actions show there is a disconnect between reality and what goes on inside her mind. She needs professional therapy to ever find happiness. AND, good luck to her ever dating again if the guys ever saw her behavior on this show! No intelligent guy wants to deal with me-itis, crybaby Alyssa!
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Does Alyssa remind you of a little child? Her behaviors are that of a spoiled little girl who is used to getting her way! And if she doesn’t get her way, she whines and cries!
She is very immature and self centered and Chris is lucky he didn’t stay married to her! Yaaaay for Chris! 👍
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Chris was waaaaay more patient with Alyssa than I would have been. I wouldn't have put up with her attitude very long; if she didn't want to be married to me, I would have divorced her conceited butt quickly and moved on with my life. I was getting ready to write-off Chris for not getting a divorce much sooner, but at least he did put an end to her theatrics in fine style. Oh, and I loved how Alyssa dabbled at her face as a few tears rolled down her cheeks. Self-centered isn't strong enough to describe Alyssa. She needs professional help!!!!
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I agree. That women was so self centered and it's a shame she was so nasty and out of control. Shame on her!! She a nasty attitude and her soul is evil.
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glad to see Alyssa gone she is extremely judgmental and never gave Chris a chance. He handled her with dignity and grace. He deserves so much more hope he finds it.
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Chris move on There's plenty of women out there that would love to be married to you ❤️
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I hope someone from the show apologizes to Chris for the bad choice that was made for him. That said, I'm glad she's gone. I was tempted to stop watching if I had to watch her any more.
Lindsey should consider her alcohol consumption. If my spouse....well, I'll leave it at that.
Steve...get a job, no excuses. So you want your wife to fund your 'adventures'? Noi, don't let him get away with it!
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First of all Good For Chris! he so deserves better than Alyssa! Now what about that sweet dog of hers, Penelope? That sweet animal deserves much better too! I thing there should be a "FREE PENELOPE" movement! I can't believe someone as selfcentered as Alyssa actually works for rescues! I hope Chris finds someone who appreciates what a truly good person he is and he finds his person! As for Alyssa......well, Karma will knock at her door one of these days!
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Chris is a handsome very cool guy that deserves a Queen!
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Alyssa is truly in denial about trying and working so hard! She never gave Chris a chance. Hope she looks back on her short time and realizes she was the problem ! Seems she was all about the partying, making friends, and being on TV. Maybe she’s not into guys! She seems very unhappy and very self centered!
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I feel like Chris was cheated out of the experience and they should allow him to come back next season. Alyssa should have been replaced after the first episode because she didn't even give chris a chance
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Chris was belittled every time he tried to have a conversation with Alyssa which was truly sad .She complained to everyone one the set how unhappy and how she was not matched right ::: Never wanted any alone time with him from the wedding day on. I think she wanted to be on TV and enjoy every perk of the show like the vacation . It’s a shame she didn’t have enough respect for herself to act like a lady on the show or treat Chris with some respect that he truly gave her . Her actions did not represent her as the nice person she kept saying she was over and over :::::: I respect the the way Chris handled the whole situation and think his choice to divorce was the right thing to do for himself ,he now has a chance to meet someone and fall in love ❤️ Can't be happier to know Alyssa won’t be on the show anymore maybe she can take this time to reflect on how she made him feel and the true fact that she wanted nothing to do with him .
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AM GLAD HE DUMPED HER IS JUST WANTED TO BE ON TV AND GET PAID SHE IS SO RUDE SHE ISN'T A PRIZE SHE ISN'T PRETTY TO PUT CHRIS DOWN I THINK HIS NICE GOOD LUCK CHRIS HOPE YOU FIND YOUR MS RIGHT NOT ANOTHER DRAMA PRINCES NOT QUEEN ALSO HATE WHEN SHE WOULD SAY AM A GOOD PERSON I TRIED YOU DON'T SAY YOUR A NICE PERSON SO ONE ELSE SAYS THAT YOUR A VERY VERY BAD PERSON I HOPE CHRIS COMES BACK ON AGAIN BUT THIS TIME THEY FIND HIM A REAL WOMEN
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Alyssa was in it for screen time. It couldn't have been more obvious. I am sure Chris will be getting 100s of women wanting to meet him. Alyssa on the other hand was so worried about him making her look bad to the audience... She succeeded doing that all on her own.
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I think Chris should get a second chance with someone else, he really got the short end of this he tried so hard such a nice guy
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"Shallow HALyssa"
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I thought it was terrible that the experts didn’t show up on the honeymoon and kick Alyssa to the curb. They allowed her to have a free vacation. I think they should have chosen someone else for Chris. He was so kind and patient to her. She should be made to pay for her trip. There is no consequences for her actions…just a spoiled rotten brat! I just felt so bad for Chris.
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Alyssa is NOT pretty with those chicken legs and fake eyelashes. Chris you’re a lucky guy to get away from a superficial fake person.
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I think Mark is more concerned with what everyone else thinks about Lindsay instead of how he really feels about her. I'd rather have her for a friend then some of the others. She speaks her mind and you know how she really feels.
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I was so happy Chris finally pulled the plug. He did say that leaving when he should is one of his biggest problems. He seems like a good fun guy. The right woman will come along and appreciate what he brings to the table. Alyssa deserves to be alone. If you have to constantly tell everyone you're a good person. Clearly you aren't. A true narcissist. When she said she had 10 dresses I already knew someone was doomed. How do you say you were here for the right reasons when you clearly said on the last episode you just want to participate and hang with the other couples. This is married at first sight not friends. They aren't here for you they will be doing exercises and work for their marriage. Hence the title of the show
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She is a spoiled rotten little piece of crap. He is a good guy. Good luck to him.
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Yaaaaaay!! Chris did what he should have done over a week ago — dump Alyssa! She still refuses to accept that it was her behavior that ended this marriage! And, of course, her favorite one liner, “I’m a good person” had to leave her lips at the end.
Was she trying to convince everyone that she was a good person or was she really trying to convince herself?
Nevertheless, she convinced the viewing audience she was indeed a very manipulative person who had no intentions of ever accepting Chris into her confused and fantasyland life. Plus, her behavior was of that of a bad person, not a good one!
Her flaring derangement is really a GOOD THING for Chris because now he is free to find a real life “good” lady to enrich his life one day!