Lydia is one of the two exes from the season. Her engagement with Milton was threatened when the secret of her and Uche’s past was revealed, but Milton still popped the question.
Their engagement came in Episode 5, moments after viewers saw Uche and Aaliyah’s tense phone call (more on that below). This is an opposites attract kind of couple. Where Lydia is loud and boisterous and emotional, Milton is a man of fewer words.
The cast reunion barbeque saw Uche and Lydia reunited, and Uche confronted Lydia about her behavior that led to their breakup (there was some Instagram and texting behavior he felt was disconcerting). This fight continued into Episode 8, with Uche pulling Milton aside to try and warn him about Lydia. Milton wasn’t fazed by Uche’s comments; his feelings for Lydia are rooted in his experiences with her and nothing else.
Milton did, however, criticize Lydia for her big emotions over the Uche situation in Episode 9. A romantic dinner in a geology museum exhibit turned sour when Milton said he wished Lydia acted less out of emotion. Just because he’s more reserved and analytical, Lydia rightly said, doesn’t mean she’s wrong to feel her feelings. And truly, the Uche barbecue fight would be distressing for anyone.
Milton and Lydia were at an emotional crossroads in Episode 9, but they seemed to overcome their disagreement. Getting ready for the wedding, Lydia told her friends and family that she told Milton he had a lot to learn about letting himself feel his feelings. With his groomsmen, Milton felt confident about saying “I do,” but his friends and father expressed doubts that made Milton question his decision.
In the end, both Lydia and Milton said “I do,” making them the only married couple from Love Is Blind Season 5. The reunion revealed that they were not only still married, but they also had a second wedding in Puerto Rico, where Lydia is from.
Despite their doubts about Lydia during their engagement, Milton said his parents adore Lydia now. One person Milton does not adore, however, is Uche.
Milton said during the reunion that he strongly disliked Uche because of the Lydia debacle (he previously told TV Insider he had a good connection with Uche and all of the pod guys, but there was a serious change in tone in the reunion). When pressed about the Lydia-Uche theory, Lydia revealed that she and Uche did, indeed, talk about Love Is Blind casting in what she said was a very short conversation in November 2021. She said that the conversation only consisted of her and Uche acknowledging that they saw the casting call.
Nick told viewers that Lydia and Uche were nearly removed from the cast when producers found out they were exes, but were allowed to stay when they reassured producers that they had no interest in dating each other. However, Lydia did pose the idea of them trying again when they ran into each other in the pods.