‘Married at First Sight’: 6 Key Moments From ‘Down & Dirty Decision Day’ (RECAP)
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[Warning: The below contains MAJOR spoilers for Married at First Sight, Season 13, Episode 17, “Down & Dirty Decision Day.”]
The big moment has finally arrived as Married at First Sight‘s Season 13 couples take on Decision Day in the latest episode, “Down & Dirty Decision Day.”
After a drama-filled season of ups and downs, the five pairs sit down with the experts to evaluate their relationships and determine whether the best choice is to stay married or get a divorce. Below, we’re breaking down all of the major moments from the pivotal episode, so beware of spoilers ahead.
Myrla & Gil
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Both Myrla and Gil sit down in good moods and with confidence regarding their impending fate and open up to the experts about their experience. There are definitely some odd moments, like Myrla genuinely saying that she hated her wedding, but that it was worth it to get Gil. She’s also wearing a new ring because the one she was originally given was “ugly.” Despite these negative assessments, and Gil’s aversion to her moody states, Myrla and her husband both willingly said yes to staying married. But will their financial differences be the reason behind a potential relationship demise? Only time will tell for certain.
Bao & Johnny
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After a rollercoaster of a marriage, Bao notes that there were more highs than lows for her heading into Decision Day. Johnny also seems fairly positive about the experience, saying he enjoyed the small things that would remind him of their special relationship. Despite issues with communication and running away on Johnny’s part, the pair don’t seem to have any regrets, and after the experts tee him up, Johnny apologizes for talking to Bao’s friend Sarah behind her back. When it comes time to decide though, Johnny goes out on a limb and says yes, an answer that’s met with resistance when Bao reveals she wants a divorce.
Brett & Ryan
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Ryan enters Decision Day a little nervously, and although he and Brett agree that there were some things that bonded them including shared competitiveness, it doesn’t take long for Dr. Pepper to call him out on his behavior. She wants to know why he would sign up for a dating app when the marriage still wasn’t over, and he apologizes again for doing that to Brett. Ultimately, the duo decides that they’re better off as friends. In one of the season’s least shocking Decision Day outcomes, Ryan and Brett agree that they both want a divorce.
Michaela & Zack
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Both feeling good, Michaela and Zack begin their Decision Day sit down on a positive note as they both reveal to the experts that they see this marriage as a learning experience. Zack takes a letter out to read some of the points he wants to make, including how much he loves Michaela and how much he appreciates her. The exchange leaves Zack in tears, and it’s clear that some kind of deeper connection has been made, making Michaela’s desire to stay married understandable. Unfortunately for her, Zack won’t budge on wanting to get a divorce with the hope that they’ll remain a couple after the show ends. Needless to say, the experts and Michaela aren’t exactly excited by the outcome.
Rachel & Jose
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Jose and Rachel enter Decision Day with a clear path in front of them as they reflect on some of the good and bad moments in their relationship, including the fight that almost ended it all earlier in the season. Ultimately, the duo believes staying married is what’s best for them, leading to a celebratory champagne toast with the experts.
Final Celebration
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The next day, all of the season’s participants regroup at a bar to reveal their Decision Day outcomes. Jose and Rachel joke at first, hinting that the outcome wasn’t as positive as it actually was. Thankfully everyone sees through the fib that they’re getting divorced. Gil takes a similar approach of joking before he and Myrla reveal their choice to stay married, as well as their updated status on consummating the marriage. In a surprise to no one, Brett and Ryan reveal their mutual decision to divorce. Michaela fills in the group on her and Zack’s arrangement, and although he says it was the hardest day so far, he thinks they have a bright future. Despite some reluctance from the others, Michaela defends Zack to everyone else.
And finally, Johnny reveals that he made a decision to say yes, but Bao shares that it’s too little too late for her. Although not every outcome ended in marriage, the couples all agree that they’re part of a special family and end the season on a toast. Will things be as easygoing in the reunion episode? Stay tuned for what’s sure to be a wild ride when Married at First Sight airs next week.
Married at First Sight, Season 13, Wednesdays, 8/7c, Lifetime
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Bao leaving Johnny was the best part of the show
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Good for Bao, run as fast as u can girl!
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It gave me pleasure to see Bao bow out from that toxic relationship. He got just what he deserved. YOU GO BAO!!!
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I’m sorry I underestimated Bao, in the words of, (Ari gran), thank you NEXT???!$
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Boa, u r Beautiful inside & out! Johnny is unrealistic, immature. I hope u will bé fine!
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Brett & Zack 👏👏👏! You both deserve better !
(PS , love Dr. Pepper ! )
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Bao leaving the self-indulgent, egotistical Johnny deserved a standing ovation. And she did it in a smooth and classy way. Bao, you deserve a man like Gil. Hang in there; I believe Gil will be single soon.
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I thought Johnny was arrogant, narcissistic, moody, whiny- put himself on a pedestal and Bao knocked him off. You're beautiful Bao- inside and out and HE didn't deserve you. Dee Dee in Los Angeles
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Proof reading is a must. Myrla married Gil not Jose.
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Michaela is a tornado! How scary for all! Run Zack run!!!
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Yes Zach run run and don't look back. Michaela has too many issues.
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All the men seemed wimpy this season to me. I was pulling for Myrla and Gil the whole time; could not understand why anyone thought Zack should stay with Hurricane Mikaela. Ready for next season!
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You got back you deserve better that man Johnny is whimp only uses women for his self satisfaction
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I was not a fan of this season just didn’t like any of the couples to be honest.
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michaela needs anger management classes. Imagine if she ever has kids. Horrors!
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I think Bao made the right decision,Johnny is self serving jerk. Michaela needs anger management classes. Gil and Mryla won't last she is to self indulgent. I think Zack and Bao.would be a good match and Gil and Brett. Ryan needs to stop being a jerk or he will never find happiness he is very superficial. I think more vetting of each person. It seems like some just want to be on TV.
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Boa so glad she dumped Johnny, she is a beautiful woman.
Gil is so fine, he deserve someone better, they won't last
Already know Brett & Ryan was not going to make it.
Jose & Rachel might make it Jose is too controlling.
Zack is too cute, glad he said divorce
Michaela is Crazy, if she keep acting like she do, she will never keep a man
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oanmThis whole season was interesting. So proud of Bao for removing herself from Johnny. He said some very hurtful things to her & was putting her down. Myrla was too high maintenance for Gil. She just felt she was better than everything & everyone. I doubt they will last. Brett deserves so much better that Ryan. Zack OMG he was all over the pla ce. Michaela has a lot to work on for herself & she owns it, but she deserves better. Jose & Rachel, good luck..
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Was so happy Boa kicked Johnny to the curb!!!!
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Johnny wants a concubine, not a real wife. Someone who will do what he wants, when he wants, no questions asked. I think Gil will tire of Myrla's childish behavior. Zack was lucky to escape Mikaela's Jekyll / Hyde personality. Brett & Ryan made the right choice for sure. Sad, but either the spark is there or it's not. Not sure about Jose and Rachel. She is giving up a longtime dream of Europe, plus, sorry, but she should have left when he said those very hateful things to her and locked her out. A good man does not do that to his wife.
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Bao, I salute you for being strong and brave and saying a resounding "no" to gross disrespect and verbal abuse.
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Bao, so proud of you, you deserved so much more….drop the 🎤
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Worst season and it's too bad because the concept is good and usually engaging. Not this one! Wonder how much vetting was done.
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Zack please you are not ready to be married to anyone,all you do is cry you want your cake and ice cream but eating from a knife..she need to learn how to control her temper tantrum’s but you don’t need Zack get a real man that don’t run away from conflicts..he needed to been the bride as much he cries
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Brett you are so fortunate to have divorced Ryan. You are definitely too good for him. You will find love. Keep smiling. He is a troubled man.
Myrla, you turned out to be a disappointment. You were so cruel on the Houston Reunion, flirting with Johnny. It was disgusting. You and Johnny deserve each other. You both are cruel, ego maniacs, and self centered. Gil was once in a lifetime man and you threw it away.
Boa is a great young woman. She is lucky to have escaped a marriage to Johnny.
Rachel you need to be careful with Jose. If he continues to control you or is hurtful toward you, then you need to divorce him. Don’t take that mistreatment.
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Myrla, you had the best guy on the show. What is wrong with you to divorce him. You have to be out of your mind to even consider Johnny as a friend. He has so many
mental issues. UGH! You showed your true colors. On the last Houston reunion you were extremely disrespectful to Gil. Your actions on camera were disgusting.
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I think bao has issues to he wasn't a,saint but she to me was mixed up. That mickala was like a fire cracker ready to explode they both need counsel
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Upsetting!!! My favorite couple were Bryan and Bret,the most cute pair,and they disappointed me,starting liked a suitable couple,and then out of the blue they became a non match. He was mostly to blame, too picky. She was a good match for him,but he didn’t gave her no chance. He lost a good catch,and I think he won’t ever get married for his Personality Issues. Why then he went in first place to get married at first sight? This 13 season was so much drama and to much chaos. Yes indeed!
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None of them make it, surprise surprise
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I heard gossip Bao and Zack got together after the show.
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Bao you shld reconsider Johnny. I think he has the potential to be a great husband. Your patience is exactly what Johnny needs. Don't listen to the haters. I say go get your man❣
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