‘RHOBH’: Are Erika Jayne & Boyfriend John ‘Shrek’ McPhee Still Together?

Erika Jayne has been fairly guarded when it comes to sharing information about her love life following her messy split from Tom Girardi in 2020. However, during Season 15 of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, she’s briefly spoken about her new romance with John “Shrek” McPhee, a bodyguard and former U.S. Army Special Operations Sergeant Major.

John has not actually filmed scenes for the show himself, but Erika has talked about him to her castmates. Of course, this was all filmed during summer 2025, so quite a bit of time has passed since Erika first opened up about the relationship.