’90 Day Fiancé’: Are Catie & Josh Still Together Today?
While Catie Norboe and Josh Atkins tied the knot during the regular season finale of 90 Day Fiancé, the couple revealed on the Tell All stage that they have been questioning everything since Catie cheated on Josh at a New Year’s Eve party.
At the start of Season 12, viewers were introduced to 26-year-old Catie and her 30-year-old British fiancé, Josh. While Catie had been living abroad, bouncing from city to city with pet-sitting gigs, she returned home to Portland, Oregon, to settle down with Josh when he arrived in America with his K-1 visa. Since then, the duo has opened up about their unorthodox issue: As Catie put it, “I have intrusive thoughts as part of my OCD. When I get drunk, I really want to make out with everyone I know.”
Scroll to find out where Catie and Josh stand today, what they revealed at the Tell All, and more!
Are Catie and Josh still together?
While Catie and Josh tied the knot, she revealed at the Tell All that she does not want to be married. Right now, it’s unclear whether they’ll work on their issues, as this seemed to be the first time Josh heard about Catie’s discontent.
Did Catie break up with Josh at the Tell All?
It’s unclear whether Catie broke up with Josh at the Tell All. During their update, Josh revealed that Catie made out with three people at a New Year’s Eve party and almost went into the bathroom with another man.
This caused the rest of the cast to ask Catie whether she was mature enough to be married. She then asked Josh, “Why don’t you dump me?”
When asked whether she wanted to be married, Catie told Josh, “I don’t know. I can do whatever I want. I don’t have to listen to [Josh]! I just want to be young and live my life.” She then told Josh, “I don’t enjoy being together. Sorry. I think I’d do better on my own.” After that, Catie stormed off the stage.
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Why did Catie ask Josh for an open marriage?
Catie requested an open relationship ahead of their wedding, which undeniably rocked their relationship. According to Catie, she was incredibly happy with Josh, but worried that one day she would want to explore her options. Her solution? An open marriage. She asked, “What if I get bored in marriage? Right now, I don’t want to make out with anyone. But what if, in five years, I want to make out with someone? I know you’re my person, but I just crave the chase.”
Unfortunately, Josh did not agree with Catie. He told viewers, “I am done with this bulls**t. Maybe the signs were there. But if she says that the only way we’re getting married is for me to agree to an open relationship, I mean, I already know the answer. And the answer is no.”
He asked Catie, “So, what you’re saying is, you’re not sure if you want monogamy or not?” In response, Catie explained, “I just don’t want to close off all my experiences, always.” As Josh put it, “We are not in an open relationship. It’s not what I’ve signed up for.”
What happened between Catie, Josh, and Ryan?
When Catie’s friend Ryan came back into the picture, Josh was not happy. According to Catie, after Josh watched Ryan do “inappropriate” things with Catie during Oktoberfest, their last communication was Josh sending a “You’re a horrible person, see you never” text.
When Ryan returned, Josh admitted that he was very disappointed in Catie’s repeated behavior. Catie told Ryan, “I don’t want to mess this up because I love [Josh].” When Ryan asked if she should be getting married with these feelings, Catie shocked viewers, confessing, “I don’t think we should be getting married, realistically. But I think, if we want to start a life together, we have to get married.”
What have Catie and Josh said about their relationship status?
In a social media video, which you can watch below, Josh shared that he has seen all of the comments surrounding their relationship. He explained, “I understand that a lot of you are looking at my relationship with Catie and are just like, ‘What the f**k.’ I get it. I appreciate that some of you really care enough to want to reach out. I appreciate that some of you are quite upset. If I get another comment that says, ‘Run,’ […] I think I’m going to lose my mind.”
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When did Catie and Josh get engaged?
During the first episode of the season, Catie revealed, “I wasn’t really thinking about marriage, but Josh proposed to me at sunset on the coast in Turkey. He did that classic proposal thing when you pretend to be taking a picture, but you’re actually taking a video.”
In the video, which was filmed on February 27, 2024, he asks, “I was wondering if you would marry me?” There, she laughed, responding, “I didn’t know this was coming, and I want to look cuter,” before answering, “I will.”
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When did Catie and Josh meet?
Catie and Josh appear to have met in 2022. At the time, Catie was living a “nomadic” lifestyle. They met while Catie was pet-sitting in the UK, when Catie swiped on Josh’s friend Dave on Tinder. That night, Dave got kicked out of the bar, and Catie got Josh to walk her home. She revealed that during their walk, they made out on a bench, and then she left him peeing in a bush. As she put it, “And that’s how I met my fiancé.”
90 Day Fiancé, Season 12, Sundays at 8/7c, TLC
