‘Mormon Wives: OC’: All About Bobbi Althoff’s Boyfriend, Divorce & History With Drake
Bobbi Althoff is already a public figure as a podcast host and content creator, but in recent years, she’s been keeping much of her personal life offline. Fans will get a deeper look inside her private life now that she’s starring on The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: Orange County, though.
It’s unclear how much we’ll see of Bobbi’s love life on the show. She has been dating Tyler Hawkins for more than a year, but prior to their relationship, she went through a publicized divorce with her ex-husband and made headlines for her friendship and falling out with Drake.
Below, we rounded up everything to know about Bobbi’s love life, relationship history, and family with her ex-husband.
Who is Bobbi Althoff’s boyfriend?
Tyler Hawkins is a basketball player. He has played in the NBA G League and professionally in Puerto Rico. In August 2026, Tyler posted photos of himself on Instagram playing with the Miami Pro League.
Following her divorce, which was finalized in August 2024, Bobbi first confirmed she was dating someone new while appearing on Nick Cannon‘s podcast in August 2025. She revealed that they met after “connecting on Instagram” through a mutual friend, and in a January 2026 interview with People, she shared that the relationship began in November 2024.
“He’s very kind,” Bobbi said. “We have a pretty normal relationship. We do very normal things. We’re just like, we’re pretty regular.” As for why she is hesitant to share more about her love life with fans, Bobbi explained, “I’m still indifferent whenever I share him online. Because the people who follow me don’t want me to be happy, apparently.”
Who is Bobbi Althoff’s ex-husband?
Bobbi’s ex-husband is Cory Althoff. The exes met on Bumble, and she was pregnant with their first child just nine months later. They got engaged in October 2019 and tied the knot on January 31, 2020.
Cory graduated from Clemson University and received his master’s in business administration and management from the University of Southern California, per LinkedIn.
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He began his career as a software engineer, first working for eBay, then at the startup Thuuz Sports. He left his job in January 2016 to focus on writing his book The Self-Taught Programmer, which was released one year later. “I was trying to create a book you could follow with zero knowledge,” he explained.
Cory released his first book on his own and then had a publishing partner for his second, The Self-Taught Computer Scientist, which came out in 2021.
From 2022 to 2025, Cory worked as the senior vice president of product marketing for CompTIA. He is now the chief marketing officer for Beyonder, a company that develops custom software with AI.
Why did Bobbi Althoff get divorced?
Bobbi and Cory separated in July 2023, and he filed for divorce in February 2024. He cited “irreconcilable differences” in his divorce filing.
In a March 2026 interview with People, Bobbi admitted that she and her ex rushed into the big steps in their relationship too soon. “We didn’t really have enough time to get to know each other and figure out that we weren’t really a good couple,” she shared. “But we’re good coparents, so that’s good, at least.”
Bobbi also previously shut down speculation that her marriage ended because she slept with guests who appeared on her podcast. “I never respond to this comment that I’ve been getting a million times a day for the last year, but I am really sick of seeing it,” she wrote on her IG Story in 2024. “Anyone who says stuff like this is so f**king ignorant. You don’t know why my marriage ended, that we are both so much happier apart than we ever were together.”
What happened between Bobbi Althoff and Drake?
In July 2023, Drake was a guest on Althoff’s The Really Good Podcast. Their interview quickly racked up views, only to be deleted one month later. Around the time of its deletion, Bobbi and Drake unfollowed each other on social media.
Fans were quick to speculate that something happened behind the scenes, with many wondering if something romantic went down between the two, especially since Bobbi and Cory’s separation date was right around the time of the interview.
In September 2025, Bobbi relaunched her podcast as Not This Again, and had Drake back on as a guest. They finally explained what really led to their falling out and confirmed they were in a good place.
“You came around at an interesting time in your life, and I think that I took a lot of the weight and blame at that time when you needed to get a little active on somebody,” Drake told Bobbi. “I think I took some hits, verbally [from you].”
Bobbi agreed that she was at a “turning point” in her life when she met the rapper. “A lot of people just assume it’s because of you and only you, and I think I let a lot of those comments influence me when the interview happened to be like, ‘Oh, maybe this was the end of my life,'” she admitted. “But actually it was single-handedly the best thing to ever happen to me and my kids.”
They then described the root of their initial conflict, which happened when Bobbi attended one of Drake’s 2023 shows. “We got in a little argument, a little back and forth, via text message [before the show],” Bobbi said. “I went [to the show] and I think because of our communication before that and because we weren’t really on the best of terms when I went, because we kind of had our back and forth before that, I felt like you were mad at me there. So I sent you a nice little message when you were still on stage and I left early. I was like, ‘F**k you,’ basically. It was not a nice message.”
Drake answered her much faster than she expected, and “within 20 minutes I’m blocked on text, Instagram, everywhere, and the interview has to be blacked out. That was the end of our friendship, right there.”
The rapper said Bobbi’s text made him feel like their podcast interview “was the reason [her] life was bad,” which is why he “just said, ‘I’m going to get rid of that interview and you never have to see it again a day.'” Bobbi, meanwhile, admitted she didn’t feel like Drake was being a “very good friend” to her, despite knowing what she was dealing with in her private life at the time.
“I was proud of what we did [on that podcast], and then when I felt like it caused any bump in the road in your life, it just hurt me,” Drake added.
Does Bobbi Althoff have kids?
Yes, Bobbi has two children with Cory. The exes share daughters Isla and Luca, but Bobbi does not share photos of her daughters online, despite her own public-facing career.
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Bobbi and Cory share joint legal custody of the girls, while Bobbi has primary physical custody (Cory gets one overnight weeknight visit, per People). “He makes it easy to coparent with, which is helpful,” Bobbi said in her March 2026 People interview. “I’ve heard of a lot of women who deal with men who are not easy to coparent with, but he’s easy to coparent with.”
She added, “I think just knowing that he has my kids’ best interest, and I do too, is what makes it easy, is we both trust each other with the kids, and decisions being made with the kids. We’re on the same page with most, if not all, decisions with the kids, and they love both of us. And all I ever want for my kids is to have two happy homes, because like, our one home was not super happy. But now they have two happy homes.”
The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives: Orange County, Series Premiere, Thursday, November 12, Hulu
